Once again we have a contribution from the insightful and talented Mr. Ivo Feuerbach. This is important stuff. Enjoy!
The Power of the First Second
The Power of the First Second
We’ve all experienced this: You are walking through town and someone
comes along. Suddenly you feel uncomfortable or you have to smile intuitively.
You don’t know the person, but something has provoked this reaction. The person
is gone, but the feeling remains. How long it remains depends on the intensity
of the feeling, but it will surely last for a while.
What happened in this second? Our subconscious
mind connected something about this person with another person or a situation
(a real one, or only something notional). Although the person we saw on the
street is a stranger to us, it still triggered the reaction. The one second we
saw this person was perfectly enough to manipulate our emotions for a longer
time. And we can’t do anything about it. When I think about this, it seems a
little bit spooky. But this behaviour of our brain happens all the time. We
judge every situation without recognising it. Subliminally a permanent evaluation of the current situation takes
place. We are searching in our experiences and trying to connect the current
situation with something we already know.
Let’s follow a short example which Daniel Kahneman performs in his Book ‘’Thinking,
Fast and Slow“ with the following words:
bananas vomit
In the last 1 to 2 seconds we experienced some pictures and memories. Our
face grimaced, maybe we pushed our head a little bit farer away from the
screen, our heart beat faster and we felt disgust. Even if we normally like
bananas, we wouldn’t want to eat one right now. At least not for a short time.
What happened? Without purpose we automatically connected the words banana and
vomit and are thinking that the bananas are the reason that we feel sick and
throw up. In just a few moments we showed a mental and physical reaction to
something we never connected with each other before. But in the future we will
remember this. Don’t worry! The antipathy to bananas will not last for ever, no
fear! Perhaps you will eat a banana the next time you already feel a little bit
sick, because you have a hangover or an upset stomach. If you have to throw up
afterwards you will automatically connect this with the banana, even if this is
not the most likely reason, because now it is connected in your brain. Let’s
eat some bananas tonight while watching our favourite film, to build a positive
connection and destroy the other one. Maybe I should have used an example with
something unhealthy. Sorry. But we are not on a site for diet consultancy here,
even if this experience could also be used there, because there they set mostly
wrong connections. (But Rob has a blog about presenting, so sorry Rob for this
excurse).
The Question here is: What does this mean for our presentations?
The Question here is: What does this mean for our presentations?
What I explained shows how our subconscious mind works with the first
impression. This also happens at the beginning of a presentation. But not when
we start speaking. No, it already happens when we enter the room or the stage.
In the situation of a presentation this reaction is even stronger, because our
brain is prepared to receive information. It is searching for some information,
even if this information is provided by our subconscious mind. It is searching
for something to evaluate the person in front of us. From the very first
moment, and without recognising it, everyone in the room, who does not know me,
starts to evaluate me. And especially at the beginning of a presentation we are
mostly occupied with other things. Remembering our presentation, the first
sentence, what we want to say, seeing
where the boss is sitting and if he looks nice and relaxed, or is he maybe in
the wrong mood? So our subconscious mind is doing the same, but our awareness
doesn’t recognise it. We are occupied with our presentation. This could lead to
heavy problems. If we look angry, because we are concentrating, the crowd will
have a picture in mind of someone who is angry. The mad neighbour from their
childhood who brought them to their parents, when they kicked the ball into
their window, or our boss who is looking angrily at us, for something we are
not responsible for. Getting these pictures out of their brain again can
influence the development and the success of our presentation. Now we are
connected with a negative picture and this connection will last for a while,
like the connection of the banana and the vomit in our brain at the moment. If
we are unlucky, then this feeling will get stronger and we will have to fight
against it again in future meetings.
So we should think about how we enter the room and the stage. What should
our presentation stand for? Do we want to convince the crowd that our idea will
bring the company forwards? Is our Idea for the future? Then we should enter
the room and the stage dynamically, with power. Even if this could seem a
little bit out of place, it will have a mechanical positive effect. We also
need to bring our actions into the context of the situation at hand. When I’m
at a party and want to cheer for the birthday child, I can jump on a chair to
do it. But if the presentation is in the office in front of the bosses, that
would be out of place. In this case a strong step forward shows dynamism.
So the question, I should ask myself during the preparation of the
presentation is: What impression should come to the mind of the crowd at the
first moment? How can I make sure that I will reach this goal? Also this first
impression can be practiced. If you follow the suggestions I gave to you with
my first blog Jazzy
Presenting: The Fine Line Between Memorising and Flexibility, you might find some free time to
practice the first second.
So remember that our subconscious mind has
a huge impact on our impression and a big impact comes from the very first
second of entering the room. The presentation does not begin when the official time starts. The presentation begins
when you enter the room, or step out on the stage.
Thanks for your attention,
Ivo Feuerbach